I was not "threatened", but I was deceived into moving out of my "forever" home. When I tried to rectify the deception, by insisting that I get bought out in full for my half of the house, I was met with scorn, and derision, as if I was being the difficult one. I stood firm and I eventually did get paid out in full, and it has played out as the right decision. Remaining partnered on the house until he sold it, would not have been good for my financial or mental health.
I was not "threatened", but I was deceived into moving out of my "forever" home. When I tried to rectify the deception, by insisting that I get bought out in full for my half of the house, I was met with scorn, and derision, as if I was being the difficult one. I stood firm and I eventually did get paid out in full, and it has played out as the right decision. Remaining partnered on the house until he sold it, would not have been good for my financial or mental health.
Diane, I am so glad it worked out and proved to be the right decision. So glad, too, your new home now feels like yours.